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I recently turned 40, and feel pretty secure in the fact that I am gay. But so many years were wasted out of fear and doubt. I too, heard it from all sides; that I was somehow 'wrong' and 'confused', especially after having multiple relationships with men.
I still struggle with this, having not yet fully come out. Now, being androgynous and attracted to the more androgynous and tomboy type, I have a whole new battle to trudge through.
This article gives me a bit more perspective, and let's me know I'm not the only one xoxo. Finally an article addressing this, I present as MoC, some call me butch some can me androgynous, I call me comfortable with being me. I am and have only been attracted to MoC women but this means dating pool is a little smaller in the pond size.
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